You may think what is the relation between money and appreciation. But trust me relation is direct, as you may know the fact that most of the decisions we take is based on our emotions, not with our conscious mind and the appreciate definition or the art of appreciation will help you to make strangers good friends and then into your good listeners.
So, lets start with the magical “appreciate definition”
1) Encourage him
If you want to get noticed positively by the specific person and you want to make that person influenced by you then you should encourage him for every work you like and don’t be fake because he may find you buttery.
And if he finds you buttery then he will find you inferior than him and then you gonna loose all.
2) Praise in public
This is the most amazing phrase “praise in public ” and you should use this phrase as it is on person you want to influence. Actually there is very vast difference in praise and praise in public. when you praise someone in public the person finds you interesting because he thinks you are interested in him.
- Thank him for every good he do to you.
3) The secret heart unlock key
This type of appreciation is known as “appreciation of uniqueness “. Everybody has there own capability and talent. It is better, you find his talent and particularly you appreciate or encourage him for his unique talent. This appreciation will tell him that you understand him very well.
4)Do something special
Think of an event you still remember because somebody praise you in front of many people .
So, how do you feel on that occasion ? Of course you felt like you are on the top of the world on that moment. In the same way if you are able to do something special for him or even just praise him for the good work he has done, on some special occasion it will be a Unforgettable event for him. And again don’t be fake at all !
I am not saying that these are the only things that will work ,but yes if you try these steps on somebody then, most probably he will start respecting you. And never forget if you are not able to appreciate yourself then you will not be able to appreciate others genuinely.